{"id":503,"date":"2022-04-30T08:57:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-30T08:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/?p=503"},"modified":"2025-05-22T08:47:01","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T08:47:01","slug":"tap-trung-vao-giai-phap-sfbt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/2022\/04\/30\/tap-trung-vao-giai-phap-sfbt\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ednh kh\u1ea3 thi c\u1ee7a l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p (SFBT) trong tham v\u1ea5n tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1edf ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a Vi\u1ec7t."},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_74 ez-toc-wrap-left counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">M\u1ee4C L\u1ee4C<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #295788;color:#295788\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #295788;color:#295788\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/2022\/04\/30\/tap-trung-vao-giai-phap-sfbt\/#1_Ly_thuyet_tap_trung_vao_giai_phap_SFBT\" >1\/ L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p (SFBT)<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/2022\/04\/30\/tap-trung-vao-giai-phap-sfbt\/#2_Thuc_trang_hoan_canh_van_hoa_A_Dong\" >2\/ Th\u1ef1c tr\u1ea1ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/2022\/04\/30\/tap-trung-vao-giai-phap-sfbt\/#3_Do_nhay_van_hoa_doc_dao_mo_hinh_Tap_trung_vao_giai_phap_SFBT\" >3\/ \u0110\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1y v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p SFBT<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Ly_thuyet_tap_trung_vao_giai_phap_SFBT\"><\/span><strong><em>1\/ L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p (SFBT)<\/em><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhanh ch\u00f3ng, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tri li\u1ec7u ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ra \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng Ph\u00e1p Tr\u1ecb Li\u1ec7u T\u1eadp Trung V\u00e0o Gi\u1ea3i Ph\u00e1p. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ri\u00eang, m\u00e0 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c, mi\u1ec5n \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tri th\u1ee9c, \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng, can thi\u1ec7p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p ng\u1eafn\/brief therapy. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tham v\u1ea5n theo m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh\u00a0<strong>t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p\u00a0<\/strong>cho r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 tham v\u1ea5n l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a th\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 sang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. Trong K\u1ebfp c\u1eadn t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Thuc_trang_hoan_canh_van_hoa_A_Dong\"><\/span><strong><em>2\/ Th\u1ef1c tr\u1ea1ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng.<\/em><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u0103n h\u00f3a th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0110\u00e0i Loan \/ Trung Qu\u1ed1c v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u quy t\u1eafc b\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u0169 (Ikels 2004). Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o s\u1ebd t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Sau khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00ean trung th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh hai lo\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o kh\u00e1c nhau: t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ed7 v\u00e0 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n. Reciprocity \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 sau khi h\u1ecd gi\u00e0 \u0111i, trong khi ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 (Yeh 1997). M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ea3 hai h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c \/ v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cao h\u01a1n, l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o t\u1eadp trung nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, trong khi l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 h\u01a1n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh (Yeh v\u00e0 Bedford 2003).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nguy\u00ean l\u00fd c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan s\u00e1t trong c\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1edbi v\u0103n h\u00f3a Trung Qu\u1ed1c (Ikels 2004). Trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a Trung Qu\u1ed1c, c\u00e1i t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (Wang v\u00e0 Song 2010). L\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Qu\u1ed1c, s\u1ef1 li\u00ean quan v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan. Vai tr\u00f2 ph\u00e2n c\u1ea5p trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp theo t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c vai tr\u00f2 kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, con trai c\u1ea3 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cha m\u1eb9 khi anh \u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (Ikels 2004). Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kinh t\u1ebf &#8211; ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb &#8211; x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2u \u00c1 trong v\u00e0i th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 qua \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ph\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2y nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng trong c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh Trung Qu\u1ed1c \/ \u0110\u00e0i Loan (Compton 2000). Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ch\u00e2u \u00c1, c\u00e1c c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"612\" height=\"408\" src=\"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/istockphoto-1297931559-612x612-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-505\" style=\"width:500px;height:333px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/istockphoto-1297931559-612x612-1.jpg 612w, https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/istockphoto-1297931559-612x612-1-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">reunion dinner at home<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Do_nhay_van_hoa_doc_dao_mo_hinh_Tap_trung_vao_giai_phap_SFBT\"><\/span><strong><em>3\/ \u0110\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1y v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p SFBT<\/em><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c minh h\u1ecda b\u1edfi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a hai kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng n\u00e0y, m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a SFBT trong khi xem x\u00e9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a Trung Qu\u1ed1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 SFBT kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c mang quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111a v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 nhau trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean SFBT \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau ra mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u1edbi c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a Trung Qu\u1ed1c, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n mong mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ba t\u00ednh n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u00edch h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang bao g\u1ed3m (i) t\u00e1i c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m h\u00f3a, (ii) th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 (iii) t\u1ea1o thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i cho c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng th\u00f4ng qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Theo c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc, r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra ngo\u00e0i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0, nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tham gia s\u00e2u v\u00e0o h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi (Yeh 1997). Do nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, ngay c\u1ea3 khi tr\u1ebb em tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, nhi\u1ec1u thanh ni\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0y. Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i v\u00ec c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n s\u1eafc c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, c\u00e1c c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y l\u1eafng nghe kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u00fd ngh\u0129a, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh t\u1eeb c\u00e1c khung tham chi\u1ebfu ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng. Xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi k\u00eau g\u1ecdi k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i cha-con m\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng c\u1ea5p. \u0110\u1ec3 tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a, kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i \/ t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng cao \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u00fap kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o c\u00f3 \u0111i c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0, kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c duy tr\u00ec k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n k\u00ecm n\u00e9n mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1edfi tr\u1ebb em tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh lu\u00f4n ch\u1ee9ng minh cho cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u00e1i c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac SFBT t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng Khi\u1ebfu n\u1ea1i, x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng Nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd khi \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp n\u00e0y c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i, t\u0103ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 xoa d\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 leo thang ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh (Hsu 2009a; Kwan 2000). Lee (1997) \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ch\u00e2u \u00c1 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c xung \u0111\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t cho nhau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0110\u00e0i Loan \/ Trung Qu\u1ed1c c\u00f3 ch\u00fat do d\u1ef1 khi g\u1eb7p c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u do s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb d\u00e1n nh\u00e3n (Lin 2004), c\u00e1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1edfi m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1edbi thanh ni\u00ean \u0110\u00e0i Loan kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng (Hsu 2009a).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n, trong \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n Trung Qu\u1ed1c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u00e2m l\u00fd ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n (Hsu 2009a; Lin 2004). C\u1ea3 hai t\u00ednh n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1edf th\u00edch th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a Trung Qu\u1ed1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1c tri\u1ebft l\u00fd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 SFBT \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, khung tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00e1 bao qu\u00e1t v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ed7 cho th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cung c\u1ea5p cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng t\u1eeb c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0110\u00e0i Loan \/ Trung Qu\u1ed1c m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng \u0111a v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a SFBT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i b\u1ed9 gi\u1eefa d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 Trung Qu\u1ed1c, Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n v\u00e0 H\u00e0n Qu\u1ed1c (Lum, 1998; Sorenson, 1996), h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1eadp c\u01b0 \u0110\u00f4ng \u00c1 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a trung t\u00e2m gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c Nho gi\u00e1o. C\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n nhau chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a, vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd (Chu, 1985). \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0110\u00f4ng \u00c1. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0110\u00f4ng \u00c1, b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb Nho gi\u00e1o, t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u00e2n t\u1ed9c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng (Chu, 1985; Tamura, &amp; Lau, 1992; Triandis, 1995). M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 con trai, anh trai, ch\u1ed3ng, cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eeba k\u1ebf d\u00f2ng d\u00f5i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i, ch\u1ecb g\u00e1i, v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n (Chan &amp; Leong, 1994). Ngo\u00e0i ra, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n y \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng theo m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng theo mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb. Trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ch\u1eb7n b\u1edfi c\u00e1c vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 trong m\u1ed9t c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac ph\u00e2n c\u1ea5p. Trong c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n ph\u1ed1i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh (Min, 1995). \u1ee8ng x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u00e0i h\u00f2a. Trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n nh\u00f3m. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft, trung th\u00e0nh, ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u1eabn nhau, hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh, li\u00eam ch\u00ednh, nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi (Doi, 1986; Ho, 1993; Min, 1995).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p nh\u1eb1m t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u trong \u0111\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh tham gia v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1edfi x\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p (MY Lee, 2003) . \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho h\u1ecd trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, cho ph\u00e9p gia \u0111\u00ecnh x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, gi\u1eef c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: de Shazer, 1985; MY Lee v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1, 2003), v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan, ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bth\u1ee9c theo ng\u1eef c\u1ea3nh, v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 trao quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, mang \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0110\u00f4ng \u00c1. M\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh song song trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, trong \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c ch\u1eefa b\u00e1ch b\u1ec7nh hay l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p duy nh\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a v\u0103n h\u00f3a trong c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng SFBT trong v\u0103n h\u1ecdc qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ee5c, \u0110\u00e0i Loan, H\u1ed3ng K\u00f4ng, Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n v\u00e0 H\u00e0n Qu\u1ed1c (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: Chung &amp; Yang, 2004; Mishima, 2012; Xu, 2010; Yang, Dayu, &amp; Yulin , 2001; Yang, Xuanwen, &amp; Yingping, 2005; Yeung, 1999; Zhang v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1, tr\u00ean b\u00e1o ch\u00ed), n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng SFBT l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t can thi\u1ec7p th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2u \u00c1. SFBT hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ee5c, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, trong c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1m s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 trong c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh (Zhang et al., 2015). Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng SFBT v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m ch\u00e2u \u00c1 cho th\u1ea5y SFBT r\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 ch\u00e2u \u00c1, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 logic theo \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh thay v\u00ec b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 gi\u00fap kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ch\u00e2u \u00c1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, thay v\u00ec ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn, c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">SFBT c\u0169ng cung c\u1ea5p c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 gi\u00fap kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ch\u00e2u \u00c1 t\u00f4n vinh s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft nh\u00f3m v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi g\u1eb7p b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u2019\u2019 n\u00f3i chung v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng. D\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bth\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1ec7nh t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang theo s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh (nh\u01b0 ch\u00e2u \u00c1). G\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u1ecf, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ch\u00e2u \u00c1 \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng thu\u1ed1c th\u1ea3o d\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, trong \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e1c s\u0129 k\u00ea \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ed1c ho\u1eb7c thu\u1ed1c \u2019. N\u00f3i chung Ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thu\u1ed1c theo toa, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng, vi\u1ec7c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bth\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, bao g\u1ed3m h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>4\/ M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u-b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed7i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a ri\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn gi\u1eefa c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n. Trong m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a m\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n. Trong c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a coi tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd mong mu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7, v\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u. N\u00f3i chung, b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c ch\u00e2u \u00c1 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bc\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t. S\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u &#8211; b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u0103n h\u00f3a l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft (Neki, Hogan, Hauli, &amp; Kilonzo, 1985). Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c chuy\u1ec3n giao c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n (c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n), c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n giao v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1eafc t\u1ed9c hay ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u (Comas-D \u0301\u0131az &amp; Jacobsen, 1991; Schachter &amp; Butts, 1968 ).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0 Doi (1973) \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang (amae trong ti\u1ebfng Nh\u1eadt) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. S\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u1eabn nhau n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n. C\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 ngoan ngo\u00e3n v\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n, trong khi nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bs\u1ebd ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi. S\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u1eabn nhau trong quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng sang quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u &#8211; b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u1eabn nhau, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft trong th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng. Nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t, hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh anh ta, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p (SFBT) h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf model m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh y t\u1ebf, trong \u0111\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng n\u00f3i tr\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ngu\u1ed3n tham kh\u1ea3o<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2011-29293-008\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hsu, W.-S., &amp; Wang, C. D. C. 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Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 30(4), 497\u2013513.<\/em>doi:10.1111\/j.1752-0606.2004.tb01258.x\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2004-12677-005\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tseng, W.-S. (2004).\u00a0<em>Culture and psychotherapy: Asian perspectives. Journal of Mental Health, 13(2), 151\u2013161.<\/em>doi:10.1080\/09638230410001669282\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2008-00837-004\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bannink, F.P. Solution-Focused Brief Therapy.\u00a0<em>J Contemp Psychother<\/em>\u00a0<strong>37,\u00a0<\/strong>87\u201394 (2007). https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10879-006-9040-y<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>c\u1ee7a l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p (SFBT) trong tham v\u1ea5n tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1edf ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a Vi\u1ec7t Nam.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":504,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[22,23,17,16,45,46],"class_list":["post-503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bai-viet-tam-ly","tag-mien-hai-dang","tag-mienhaidang","tag-tam-ly-hoc","tag-tamlyhoc","tag-tap-trung-vao-giai-phap","tag-viet-nam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=503"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamlymienhaidang.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}